Writing is a solitary process. It can be fun and exhilarating when the story is flowing but at the end of the day it is nice to enjoy some outside input. Most people go to work and depending on their job have some level of interaction with others. But I work at home so that doesn’t happen. I’m also a single, empty-nester, in a new neighborhood, so my after-work hours can be rather quiet. I know I need to get out and mingle with real people (as opposed to my characters) but that can be difficult for a morning person. I am gradually working toward taking some classes in the evenings and try to commute to visit old friends a couple times a month. But still, I can see why so many authors thank their spouses. Because if I had one, I’m sure I would annoy him every evening with my need for attention.
Lately I’ve been thinking about getting a dog. I picture my pet listening attentively to my every word. I’m not sure if that’s true because the last time I had a dog I was very young, and at that time didn’t need an audience for my chatter. I had my imaginary friends when my real friends and family weren’t there to listen. I do know that over the years every time I thought about getting a dog, I shied away from the extra responsibility … too much, with a household to run and kids to take care of, not to mention my love of travel. I was probably wrong in thinking that since I most likely could have used the undivided attention of a loving pet. But alas, such is life. So now I’m thinking about it and perusing shelters for the perfect companion. A little like online dating but MUCH easier. After all, the dogs look happy to see me and don’t judge my appearance or my crazy ideas. In the meantime, I would love to hear if any other writers have pets that double as alpha readers/listeners.
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